Life is brief, all things but should not take to heart, maintain the balance in the heart at any time and place, , defend common heart, place change not Jing, laugh at a mouth to often leave, walk along bout chicly, spend lifetime from meeting ground. 1, incorrect oneself make excessive demands overly Everybody has his ambition, some people ask he are exorbitant, essential blame can ability place and, then all day depressed must not annals. This as good as. Some people work demand be perfect in every way, ask to oneself sometimes approximately captious. Often self-condemned because of small defect, result victim or oneself. To avoid, still had better be wisely with the requirement the regulation is in him capacity limits, have an eye for oneself achievement, met naturally. 2, not exorbitant to other expectation A lot of people place go up in other body, especially wife look at a husband, hope children becomes dragon. If him short of of the other side requirement, can feel greatly. Actually, the person has keep in mind each, everybody also has his actor drawback, why does have to ask others caters to his requirement? 3, him dredge indignant mood When us when agitated water anger, very much bad thing or nohow the thing also arises spontaneously. With its after the event repents, abstain wisely. 4, also need to succumb now and then The person that become a major issue plays all without exception looks from large part, the talent that does not have experience only can get into a dead end. Well-advised a man of insight has big principle only insusceptible, in small part compromise yields, also reduce oneself trouble without hindering overall situation already. 5, temporarily evasive In in get when setback or blow, had better place trouble temporarily aside, go doing oneself thing, wait like motion, Morpheus, recreation, when after mood is gentle, face oneself difficult problem afresh again. 6, look for a person to pour out trouble Be in all and depressed bury bottom of the heart, can make oneself sullen only. As trouble those who tell oneself to know already good friend, the mood can feel free from worry suddenly. Pour out the balance that can acquire heart and outside stimulation, go calamity avoids disease. After should encountering unfortunate, trouble and not satisfactory trouble, do not depress, bury worry greatly bottom of the heart, and should trouble these to you, cool-headed, understanding person pours out, the solilo-quize also goes, tell to the animal beside also go. 7, do bit of thing for others Do a good work, obtain joy, balance psychology. Do a good work, the heart gets comforting, feel dependable; Others make response, oneself get encouragement, buoyant happy. Make from oneself, good intentions, such ability can have. 8, do not compete with the person everywhere Some people psychology is lopsided, because they are competitive object with the person everywhere,be completely, force oneself to often be in nervous condition. Actually of the person get along, it is in order to mix expensive, want you to go up not to regard others as in the heart only adversary, others also is with you certainly enemy. 9, forgetting also is the tweak that maintains psychological balance Forget trouble, forget sadness, forget agonized, forget frustrated, forget yesterday, forget oneself, forget other to you, forget a friend to you, forgetting feelings, forget you ever some be ashamed regret and disgrace... such you but open-minded rise. road is labyrinthian twist, to honour or disgrace, riches and honour, poor, calumniatory, envious, distressed wait for addendum, dismiss with a laugh, so you get freeing oneself, psychology was balanced. 10, rich and varied life This is to eliminate mentality energetically best method. When undertaking the activity that you like, chess, card games, more painterly than be as follows, fishing, lopsided psychological nature gets a balance gradually. |
Orignal From: Common heart, joy passes
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