When talking, each other are courteous and polite, when so two people date, always be happy. After marrying, many people can think: It is " people on one's own side " , polite what to still need? The concern that can feel polite to let two people instead even is distant. Actually, rather, as " hedgehog effect " same, rude meeting was destroyed, too close can stab the other side only. Take courtesy into marriage, won't estrange not only each other, conduce to instead last. The eldest sister of our office picks up the telephone, namely " hello " . The dialog at the back of rehear, just know before is the telephone call that her sweetheart makes. We jokingly: "Eldest sister, so old age, return and so polite? " eldest sister laugh: "This is not polite, this is courteous. This is courteous.. Small handsome objects a little: "Alas, really troublesome! Which have so much thing, husband is not alien, what be afraid of? I follow what our home goes that continuously namely continuously, do not have so much polite formula. " I am in assentation aside: "Be, grew, also carelessly, it is a family anyway, it doesn't matter but polite. It doesn't matter but polite.. Eldest sister shakes shake one's head, serious ground says: "No matter be opposite who, want polite. You can be accomplished to others, the closest to oneself person should be accomplished more! Actually, there was courtesy in marriage, also had harmony. " listen to her to say so, everybody is not verbal, was immersed in contemplative. I have, with the soldier two ground live apart. Every time the husband telephones, she also is to come to first " hello " , say even finally " adieu " . I very do not understand, ask her: "How to return with husband so polite ah? " she is very quiet the ground answers: " , this should be the basiccest courtesy when picking up the telephone. " I more indissoluble: "But the key is you be in what give his husband calls! " she is laughing to say: "Be, you think, no matter who be,call to you, hear the word of a greeting, in your heart grouchy? I still send one's respects to others, that is that husband, I should send one's respects to him more! I should send one's respects to him more!! Actually, understand courtesy and know, it is the most primary quality. We often think, does why bother of people on one's own side go paying attention to these? Actually otherwise, no matter be opposite who, should polite. Especially the closest to oneself person, more should such. Courtesy is not regard sb as an outsider, one kind is respected and be thankful however. Courtesy also needs in marriage, the mood that lets a person so is more free from worry, although the or else in the heart is willing, also won't ignore the request of the other side. When letting the other side what do, you add to ask a word, the other side can feel very comfortable; The other side helped you do a bit thing, you say a thank, can let the other side feel you approve his work. The both sides in marriage is each other are independent, not the other side of leech on to, no matter be the other side what to pay, not be manage place ought to, however the communication with love, had this kind of communication to just can have good marriage. Much dot is courteous in marriage, meet a bit less awkward; A bit more courteous, a bit more esteem; A bit more courteous, a bit more harmonious; A bit more courteous, a bit more understand. Polite marriage, force also is met more long. Origin: Chinese woman signs up for Sun Zhichang Http://www.china-woman.com/rp/fs/cp/140/222/20100920/8/2.html |
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