Body part education grooms industry, meet those who accept the parent or student to seek advice constantly, some parents face the school work of child how terrible, sigh and groan of hard to avoid, study result of the child bad, exam suffers a defeat wait to make them fraught, can worry even, "The child fails so now, how will should do again? " when facing this kind of situation, I can state two point of views: Above all, result is bad, do not represent failure; In addition, fail, this is the natural right that everybody has. To succeeding, everybody scramble for sth. But fail, failure is successful mother, this is of platitude, but can the person that ground of be most willing to accepts failure, be afraid amount to is not much. I ever also was a lot of years ago, to failing hard clear up. Got suffer a defeat unexpectedly that, build old base the broken up of the confidence that rise and proud stroke, if life cereal bottom says, I can admit, it is that. One day, got a mail, come from at that time a student on my class, having a word among them is such, "You are best teacher in our memory, and what we want to tell you is, you are not all-purpose, all things does not want make it you, you can fail, you are an Everyman only " . You can fail. A how good word, point out nature's mystery, our everybody, it is an Everyman only nevertheless, have without who exceed capacity, can avoid fails, succeed all the way. Since failure is the hardship that should endure necessarily on life journey, so the calm is accepted is best attitude. How to accept? What should clear up above all is, why can we fear to fail. Because it makes a person painful, this is without doubt, but actually, when encountering failure, make a person painful most often not be unsuccessful itself, the helpless feeling that is born because of failing however, self-condemned feeling, with the suspicion that begins generation to oneself. That is to say, the unsuccessful blow to the heart, it is painful origin, want to accept failure, be about to begin from the heart that repair refine. Want to realize oneself are an Everyman nevertheless, have natural right of failure. Put no less than superfluous proper pride and pride, can let oneself be immersed in only helpless with self-condemned mire, missed the opportunity that will let oneself grow through failing thereby. Fail, it is an opportunity actually, it hits us, let us fall from altitude flat or abyss, but also let us be able to depend on at the same time right now low-down identity, with modest manner, examine the capacity that the mistake that makes on the road that we are advancing, place lacks. The more modest, the thing that sees often is jumped over much. Accepted failure, should be moment undertakes striking back to failing next. From experience of the derive in failure, review oneself inadequacy, promote oneself fighting capacity, capability next, with more perfect attitude again go out for a battle, the thing count in full detail that gives you failure returns, strike back brings contented sense and achievement feel absolutely, be too charming really. My teacher has said a such case to me: A student is self-reliant and clever, like to make trouble on classroom, class hind never does work seriously, but achievement all the time since also calculate pretty good. Be in in major examination, this student sufferred a defeat actually, to this all along proud and self-reliant student, this is serious blow undoubtedly, was immersed in cannot the condition of extricate oneself, very long period of time cannot delay comes over. Have the advise of teacher and classmate fortunately, just walked out of depressed condition eventually, and begin serious and diligent rise, studying result also is advance rapidly. The outstanding student that resembles such growing rising, be absent actually a few, they experienced failure, accepted failure, and hold from inside failure lived to know the oneself inadequacy, chance that improves oneself, to them, failure is again good the decay that does not pass. In those days that word because of the student, I what go from inside cereal bottom say to oneself, experienced this to meet with cross, any problems are encountered without giving thought to on the following road, can't be fear of. It is a person, have unsuccessful right, accept failure with common heart, walk out of comer from inside failure, often have fighting capacity more, also more the possibility that has a success. |
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