Jiangsu promotes those who change a county to have a Wen An calling a horse businessman, know book review ceremony. His Wu, appearance appearance is beautiful, disposition also very sagacity, be good at doing chore, just some are proud, the heart of resentment is heavier. Accordingly, clash often produces between wife and mother. Every time Mawenan comes home, what 2 people of wife and mother tell each other each other before him is not. The mother-in-law says daughter-in-law is disobedient, daughter-in-law says mother-in-law heartless, both sides sticks to his argument, this makes Mawenan true is in a dilemma. Ma Wenan knows wife heart is proud do not wish comply with, thought the unpremeditated crime that a method allows him wife then. One day, what Wu begins to recount a mother-in-law to Mawenan again is bad, ma Wenan comforts: "Old mother long-winded, I also know, I had thought, I should take you to go to the outside. It is alien of relatives and friends does not know maternal difficult serve only, if we are carried on the back suddenly leave home in person, hard to avoid should suffer a family to censure, so I persuade you temporary just a little month. During this, you must willingly bear the burden of hard works, serve of with one one's heart, let relatives and friends people know you are very filial, say the mother is bad, next we move out again. Can avoid other people to make carding comments so. Can avoid other people to make carding comments so.. After Wu listens, still be the look with embarrassed dew. Ma Wenan says again: "Very fast we are about to live to other side, in a few days of this brief time, you become her with respect to authority is our guest, to her Zuo feasts affably all right, what embarrasses again? What embarrasses again?? Wu agreed then. Treat a mother-in-law from now on with respect to with a kind and pleasant countenance, suitable meaning bear thing. Those who do a mother-in-law see daughter-in-law disposition already changed, everything can be obedient to oneself, feel pleased with and derive comfort from sth in the heart, also show sympathy doubly to its. The daily attrition before the result was done not have, those who change is harmonious. Spent some of day, what Ma Wenan sees Wu and unlike recounted a mother-in-law to him in that way once upon a time is not, ask her intentionally: "Latter is old mother right you how ah? " Wu says: "Better than before place. " Mawenan to her again: "She since appreciably good place, you should be more careful give a job, want to make her heartless, your filial piety without fail, let everybody know, in that way I just can take you to live to the outside. " Wu listened, agree only only. Such, spent some of time again, ma Wenan asks Wu again: "Is old mother right you how? " Wu answers say: "The mother-in-law waits for me now very good, I want to left home to be not resided no longer. I often would rather be very beside of her a respectful form of address for an old person, use up a person for you child the filial piety path that answers. Use up a person for you child the filial piety path that answers.. Wen Andao: "My original idea, want you to agree namely filial piety, not be to want you to leave home to be not resided really. Now my original idea me, tell with you wore, you know my difficulties that one is reluctant to mention. You recounted the long-winded difficult serve of old mother to me once upon a time, I am early clear, this is the relation that you did not patronize nice old person. But you are in at that time in a fit of anger, what others knows only in the heart is not, think of oneself demerit none, I if bright those who say you is not, your scarcely agrees to admit. Want your music meaning to flatter old mother, what more you do not do this. So I am in as a last resort under case, the method that is forced to go to the lavatory opportunely with be apt to, make you temporarily enduring, qu Yijin thing, in change your heart proud, I am not to jubilate to cheat you with the method. I am not to jubilate to cheat you with the method.. Still tell her: "The ancients says: ' can do daughter-in-law to do not have evil mother-in-law ' , be experience really talk, henceforth, my your the ways one gets along with others, want him introspection without fail, seek an account from him body, always must not be blame other. The ancients cloud, ' sweetheart person person Heng Aizhi, constant of person of the person that respect a person respects. ' conducting oneself in society is such, be serve honour kisses what is more,the rather that? " borrow machine what said parental grace to her is great, and from of old the achievement that virtuous Fu has gone through the dutiful son to repair filial piety difficultly, frequently to. Evermore, the relationship is very harmonious between wife and mother, people praises his home is Xiao Cishuang beauty. Olden person is particularly exquisite " introspective " , "Have what change, without increase strive to do what is beyond one's power " . When encountering contradiction, if mutual between what seek the other side is not, such contradiction can be troubled by bigger more only. The processing means of faithful filial piety of Ma Wenan and be good at teaching is worth commend, of Dan Zhongyun contain " the self-communion that turn over a body " the truth makes a person thoughtful more however, should when we encounter contradiction, be how do? Origin: Reprint |
Orignal From: Introspection of wife and mother: Have what change, without increase strive to do what is beyond one's power
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