A girl and a big fellow became the home, the girl's taste is delicate, big fellow is not had hot not joyous. The girl often goes to the home loiter meal has. A day, the food of the girl that make is some saltier, not say a word takes water cup, placed one chopstick dish, mouth of the one reentry after falling swings dish in clear water. Suddenly, what did the girl comprehend from the movement with slight mother. The following day, the girl did the course that love takes in the home. Of course, chili is put in each dish. Just, her before much a cup of clear water. Big fellow looks at her with pleasure taking the course that has swung in clear water, have in the eye slight wet. Later, big fellow also is being contended for make food. But chili cannot have been found inside dish. Be him only before much dishful thick chili sauce. Dish dips in in thick chili sauce. Each, the be perfectly content that he has. For love, also for oneself, thick chili sauce of dishful of the person that they stand fast, one is standing fast a cup of clear water. They know how to stand fast more everlasting, the love of economize to avoid running short. Love, need the photograph immerse support with foam and understanding certainly. Once, I arrive with a few Jiangxi, live in guesthouse in the evening, just sleep, issued thunderstorm suddenly. The friend opens the garment gets up, solilo-quize: "Do not know Hangzhou to rain? "Do not know Hangzhou to rain?? I say: "Won't. "Won't.. The friend sighs, say: "I am special be afraid of thunder, want thunderstorm day only, she affirms insomnia. She affirms insomnia.. After phone get through of the friend, I listen to him saying: "Does Hangzhou rain? " then, the friend says: "That sleeps with respect to breakfast, do not watch the TV series of those mother-in-laws. Do not watch the TV series of those mother-in-laws.. He shuts begin engine, say to me: "Hangzhou did not rain. "Hangzhou did not rain.. The whole thing, do not communicate. Compared with period " phone congee " , of a few seconds communicate time is too short really, but, these a few seconds, meaningful if this. What to leave after all to finally? Have the time of smooth smooth An An, have help what aid up, that is big state of marriage. Marriage just does not marry a man so simple, it has ternary state. The first heavy state: The person that with one each personal place loves marries. The 2nd heavy state: The person that with one each personal place loves and him (she) marry. The 3rd state: The person that with one each personal place loves and him (she) habit, the background that still has him marries. At the husband and wife of the first state, marriage is relatively firm. At the husband and wife of the 2nd state, marriage is stabler. At the husband and wife of the 3rd state, see some rarely. On this world, the person that those living to old age in conjugal bliss, basically marry 3 times all one's life. It is to be in restaurant for the first time, in close friends in congratulation and be being blessed, the person that with one each personal place loves marries. It is the 2nd to be in the home, two people are adjusted through a few years, the habit of each other and the other side marries. It is the 3rd to be in familial in, with the of all kinds marriage of the other side. Compare the 2nd times with trigamy and first time photograph, those who have a lot of is different. Without grand wedding, also be congratulated without close friends, exclusive and attendant is bilateral tacit agreement. True marriage, often be two when happen finally. A lot of person married 3 years two to divorce now, if be analysed carefully, with respect to meeting discovery: The reason does not have the marriage oneself namely from the first push the 2nd heavy state again. Everybody knows, boiling water can exterminate a bacterium. Be passionately in love and boiling water are same, also can exterminate the defect on party body and inadequacy. Those do not have the girl that the white horse prince that be short of and birdie depend on a person in be passionately in love, enter marriage this cup not lukewarm not after igneous water, defect and insufficient meeting resemble a bacterium coming back afresh euqally. At this moment the 2nd heavy state that you must cross marriage, with him (she) habitual marriage, admit and he (she) defect and inadequacy. Otherwise, marital flower can pass because of root system shallow and wither. Those are a pair of special conjugal love originally, very few somebody hangs the divorce on the mouth. In mentally, they already accepted the inadequacy in the other side. Some returns a kind of consideration that turned this kind of inadequacy of the other side into his even. At this moment marriage is mixed, presenting the biggest characteristic that go out is to mix complementary. However, what marital warmth can not represent marriage is firm. Firm marriage still needs raising of things to a higher level the 3rd times, that is the marriage of of all kinds close complex with the other side. That is to say, be opposite you he (she) the love of one person expands his parents and relatives and friends, and be in this kind of love, had the realization of wisdom to marriage: Your other in part not only belong to you, he (she) the parents that still belongs to him and friend, still belong to him even (she) oneself, once marriage enters this kind of state, also enter the state that buddhist decides, think departure is very difficult. In the world that be in, a lot of men often misunderstand marriage to marry namely, and oversight marry even come over of feminine oneself, and the setting behind the woman. A lot of women misunderstand marriage to marry a man namely, and the habit that does not know to marry this man even and disposition, and of this man backside familial. This kind knows the error that go up, let us be on this world, saw many broken marriage. Wish every friend can find a heart medium! |
Orignal From: Marital state
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